October 21, 2022
My brethren, be not many masters, knowing that we shall receive the greater condemnation.
8 But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.
11 Doth a fountain send forth at the same place sweet water and bitter?
15 This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish.
16 For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.
18 And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.
Mind your mouth. It’s as simple as that. The hard part, of course, is thinking before speaking; that can be a real trick sometimes. The worst case I have ever seen personally was one afternoon at the supermaket – this is several years ago but it has stuck with me all this time.
Walking through the various aisles, I passed a young woman with three children in her cart and one walking along side her. All her little flowers were different colors. I passed her several times, as one often does when shopping, and I noticed how well behaved the children were – even in the cereal and candy aisles!
I headed toward the check out and the young woman was probably two people ahead of me in the line. I’m standing in the line and I hear a woman ask the mother if all the children were hers. The hair on the back of my neck went up … human radar showed storms ahead.
The young woman smiled and said yes. The next statement from the woman who addressed her made me leave the line and find another. This cruel, stupid woman asked the mom – “Did you marry any of the fathers?”
I didn’t hear the young woman’s answer as I had moved to a different check out lane. I’m glad I didn’t hear her answer – it was certainly not my business and even less so that stupid, stupid woman. That tongue! That tongue with no brain running it.
Mind your tongue. And engage your brain before you use it.
I have lost count of the number of occasions I have unwittingly or unthinkingly opened my mouth and put my size nines in it. I hope I am more circumspect in my old age.
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Well … that’s what’s supposed to happen but as the woman involved was “of a certain age”, it ain’t necessarily so!
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I guess some people never learn to filter their thoughts or just feel entirely justified in making a snap judgement about someone without knowing any of the background story.
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Exactly! It’s a cautionary tale.
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