March 7, 2023
3 Know ye not that we shall judge angels? how much more things that pertain to this life?
6 But brother goeth to law with brother, and that before the unbelievers.
8 Nay, ye do wrong, and defraud, and that your brethren.
Of course, there’s a great deal of difference between the time of the writing of these verses and today and we may think they don’t really pertain to us. But I’ve seen it – not often, thankfully – I’ve seen it when two parishioners have an unfortunate clash of ideas and/or wills. Parishioner A tells their friends in the congregation about Parishioner B and how they feel that they have been wronged by B. The same occurs with Parishioner B in regard to A. You see it graphically in the parish hall at coffee hour – Parishioner A and their friends sit at one table over here and Parishioner B and their friends sit at one table way over there and whole church is made aware of this ‘great divide’.
It seems to me that there are enough things in our daily lives trying to separate us from each other to allow this kind of thing in church. If you have an issue with a fellow parishioner that you can’t resolve on your own, don’t tell all your friends about it – go to your priest and ask for his advice. Let him help you make peace. That’s the right way to move forward. We can’t behave as the world behaves; we are called to something higher.